Tag: Medicaid cuts

celebrating the rock star contributors to uncomfortably numb 2: sarah, noelle & paige

My latest book, Uncomfortably Numb 2: An Anthology for Newly-Diagnosed MS Patients, is chockfull of stories, some inspiring, and some enraging.

It’s only because MS patients and professionals were willing to take the time to answer my questions, share their experiences — some of them excruciatingly personal — that I have this book at all.

I want to express my boundless appreciation to the folks who made Uncomfortably Numb 2 possible. Today’s post is dedicated to three of the contributors: Sarah Quezada, Noelle Connolly, and Paige Butas.

I met Sarah Quezada in Washington, D.C. this past March when we were both volunteer patient advocates for the National MS Society getting ready to descend on the Capitol to plead with our elected officials to protect Medicaid from steep cuts and to maintain the bipartisan, $22 million MS research program through the Department of Defense. Sarah met her task with enthusiasm and determination. She is a force. She has not only cultivated an online following for her Instagram page MSfitmomma, but she uses her voice to speak up for those who will be affected by various government policies.

Noelle was a young teen away at school when she started to experience what would later be considered multiple sclerosis symptoms including numb feet, difficulty walking, nerve pain, and fatigue. At the time, she was dismissed as “a dramatic, 17-year-old blond girl.” It took until she was 23 and couldn’t control her left hand for her to receive the MS diagnosis. Now, Noelle, who has an Instagram account called MS.LivingBalanced is a powerful advocate for focusing on what one CAN do while living with MS. For the past several autumns, she’s participated in the Greater New England Chapter of the National MS Society’s fashion show, taking to the runway with her mobility devices. “I still make a difference,” she says, “and I’m still valued.”

Paige Butas wasn’t a casual weekend warrior. An endurance athlete who seriously competed in triathlons, when she was in her late thirties she suddenly experienced numbness on her head “that spread down the entire right side of my face over the course of a week,” in addition to “auditory hallucinations.” A physician told her she might develop MS saying, “It’s not a matter of if but when you have another episode.” It took four years for her to get the officials MS diagnosis. She handled her frustrations and deep disappointment about the changes multiple sclerosis made to her life by channeling them into TikTok videos meant to educate and provide community to fellow MSers. Here’s her TikTok account.

lobbying for ms-related causes on capitol hill

It’s been hectic here in my neck of the woods. Between promoting my new novel Louie on the Rocks, prepping the May 6 release of Uncomfortably Numb 2: An Anthology for Newly-Diagnosed MS Patients, and teaching two journalism courses, I’ve also been doing volunteer work for the National MS Society.

In March 2025, I attended the Society’s three-day Public Policy Conference in Washington, D.C. which culminated with visits to Capitol Hill to discuss with our members of Congress two issues: the restoration of funds for Congressionally-Directed Medical Research for Multiple Sclerosis (MSMR) and requesting that our elected officials reject deep cuts to Medicaid on which over 15 percent of MS patients rely.

It was a fraught and contentious atmosphere in which to be visiting the Hill. A few of our volunteer MS Activists — many of whom have MS themselves — reported being met with disrespectful staffers, including one who complained that he was “tired of all the lies” when it came to their Medicaid pitch.

During the training portion of our conference, MS Society volunteers heard from Evan Conant, a full-time employed husband whose wife has severe MS to the point where she needs round-the-clock care in their home. They have private health insurance through his work, but were shelling out over $70,000 annually for her care, which he said was financially unsustainable. They learned of a Medicaid waiver program which enables people who demonstrate tremendous need to be able to pay monthly premiums (if your state allows it) in order to get assistance with medical costs. In Conant’s case, after three years of rigorous vetting, he said his family was allowed to buy into the program to provide four hours of health aide coverage so he could continue working and his wife was safe in their home. This is the kind of story that was met with disregard for some folks (as examples of “waste, fraud, and abuse in the system”), whereas, historically, MS Activists have said, they’ve been warmly welcomed by lawmakers because multiple sclerosis issues, and the MS Society as a whole, are nonpartisan.

However my Massachusetts crew (pictured in the photos above), was fortunate in that all of our meetings — with US Senator Elizabeth Warren and Ed Markey’s staffers, as well as with congressional staffers from our various districts — went well. Staffers were uniformly understanding and kind, even if some were palpably stressed by what’s currently transpiring in Washington, D.C.

Will volunteer MS patients speaking up for MS research help? I know that without prior medical research into possible MS treatments, the medicines upon which I rely to cope with my MS symptoms and to prevent more spinal and brain lesions from forming would likely have NOT been developed. My life could look much different. Who knows if I’d be working, or writing, or volunteering. And for working folks whose MS is severe and requires services they can’t afford, sharing their stories with people who control the funding mechanisms of government, could, perhaps move a person or two. Sometimes, that’s all you need.

Advocating for policies and laws needed by those with chronic illnesses, like MS, is a subject I cover in my forthcoming book, Uncomfortably Numb 2 (available for pre-order). This is a relatively recent (since 2022) endeavor for me, this advocating business, but it’s left me feeling as though, even though I can’t control my what ultimately happens with my MS, I can use my voice to try to make the world a bit better for people with chronic illnesses. It also makes me feel less alone in the fight. We’re stronger, the saying goes, when we fight together.