recent writings: huffpost (X2) & msnow

I’ve been fortunate to have recently had essays of mine published in HuffPost and MS Now.

MS Now & Christina Applegate

Bad Moms. Christina Applegate’s acting in that film as the tightly-wound, alpha mom is my favorite role of hers. Her work as a local TV news reporter in Anchorman is a close second.

But now she’s playing the role of a best selling author with the publication of her autobiography, You with the Sad Eyes. In that book, she discusses the impact of multiple sclerosis on her life and how it effectively ended her acting career as she was in the midst of filming the TV series Dead to Me. Inspired by her authentic and raw approach, I wrote an essay about how her frankness gives the rest of us living with MS permission to follow her lead.

An excerpt:

In a recent interview on “Good Morning America,” host Robin Roberts asked Applegate if she’s still grieving her 2021 diagnosis. The actor said that the disease still does “suck,” and that none of the people she knows with MS would ever say that they’re “great.”

“There is no ‘great,’” she said. “There’s a better day and a less s––––y day. … Where am I with acceptance? Not at all. I hate it.”

This wasn’t a “woe is me” response. It was real. It was something I’d say if I was being truthful about living with relapsing remitting MS during summer days when I’m trapped inside air-conditioned spaces so I don’t become nauseated, lose limb strength or become cognitively fuzzy as my vision becomes impaired. It. Sucks.

Read the whole piece here.

HuffPost: An Angry American at the Olympics & Chronically Ill Affected by Health Insurance Cuts

The folks at HuffPost were kind enough to publish two pieces I’ve written over the past few months.

One essay was about a shocking interaction I had at the ice skating pairs medal competition at the Milan Winter Olympics with a fellow American who was triggered by the fact that I was wearing a face mask (to protect a family member who is currently undergoing cancer treatment). While I had numerous concerns prior to heading to Italy for my once-in-a-lifetime Olympic trip with my spouse, this bizarre run-in with an American who was filled with political acrimony wasn’t on my Bingo card.

An excerpt:

I’d traveled across the Atlantic Ocean, fretting about my son and about how U.S. citizens would be received at an international event, only to be subjected to vitriol from an American who’d packed her divisive politics with her.

… Since that night at the skating rink, I’ve wondered about the woman who sat next to me. Did she spend her time in Milan spreading the same, tired cruelty we’re experiencing stateside? Did she experience any joy other than feeling as though she “owned” a lib?

Read the whole piece here.

Late last year HuffPost published an essay I wrote about the irreversible impact of the decision to pass a federal budget that didn’t include government subsidies to help 22 million folks pay for their Affordable Care Act premiums. To MS patients — including a woman I interviewed for my book Uncomfortably Numb 2 — the interruption in their medical care can lead to permanent neurological damage that could impact their ability to work, to walk, to think.

An excerpt:

I wonder if the eight Democratic-aligned senators who voted to reopen the government based on the mere promise of a vote on ACA subsidies — the same lawmakers who this summer passionately waxed on about the dire consequences to Americans’ health if the One Big Beautiful Bill passed — would be willing to leave the fate of their loved ones’ health to the whims of Republicans who for years have aspired to plunge a dagger through the ACA. Would they be willing to risk the irreparable worsening of a loved one’s chronic illness (like the loss of mobility, of manual dexterity, of vision, all MS symptoms) on the pledge of good-faith negotiations with a party whose members have demonstrated they are faithless?

Read the whole piece here.

uncomfortably numb 2: an anthology is now on sale

I’m thrilled that the sequel to my 2020 medical memoir is now on sale. Uncomfortably Numb 2: An Anthology for Newly-Diagnosed MS Patients tells the stories of a variety of multiple sclerosis patients who are in varying stages of the autoimmune disease. A neurologist who specializes in MS and pediatric neurology, as well as a National MS Society state advocacy professional’s stories are also included.

Kirkus Reviews gave it a shoutout:

This follow-up to O’Brien’s memoir, Uncomfortably Numb (2020), follows several multiple sclerosis patients and experts on their emotional journeys. It’s easy to see shared experiences across the many narratives; many of the people presented here have faced similar challenges with aspects of their illness, from dealing with insurance and prescription drug cost issues to other people’s judgement of using the Americans with Disabilities Act parking when their symptoms aren’t visible to others. A project that many will find relatable.

The president and CEO of the National Multiple Sclerosis Society, Dr. Tim Coetzee was kind enough to write the foreword in which he says, “This book is essential readding for anyone who wants to fully understand the journey of MS from the perspective of those living with the disease.”

Contributors include:

Author Elissa Grossell Dickey

MS Influencer/Advocate Sarah Quezada (MSfitmomma)

MS Influencer Paige Butas (MSfighter101)

MS Influencer/Advocate Noelle Connolly (MSLivingBalanced)

Greater New England MS Chapter Trustee Eddy Tabit

Artist and Author Lydia Emily

MS Support Group Co-Leader Dianne B.

Dr. Tanuja Chitnis, MS neurologist at Mass General Brigham and Women’s Hospital

Laura Hoch, an MS Society state policy and issues advocate